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Valentine Day Proposal

It has been two years since my arranged marriage and we could not had the opportunity to propose each other before marriage and it was all family affair and more of following traditional customs like any other couple in India. Last year was the first valentine day for us and the best part was he took time from the office hours to take me out for a candle light dinner and give me shopping vouchers to buy a new smartphone.We had a good time together and still enjoyed the moment. But I was waiting for him to propose him but that did not happened. It may be due to the fact that my husband is not very romantic and does not believe in showing off but I know he loves me very much and take care of me. I feel proud of him for supporting me to continue my education and work and not complaining to me about the food as I am still not perfect in cooking.

This time will be the second valentine day for us and to make this valentine special for my crush, I am going to propose him which will be totally unexpected being women. I am confident that I will be able to pull it off in a style and romantic way in order to light my relationship and thank by husband for giving me his love, time and everything. I am still not clear about the right way of proposal and have many different plans and ideas in my mind and this will require lot of preparation before the day of actual proposal.

One of the easy but cupid plan is to make arrangement for candle light dinner and make his favourite dishes on my own and gift him a special wine bottle with a new Titan watch. Then planning to give him a hug and just say the beautiful words expressing my emotions that I will love you forever till the last single breadth of my life

My other way is write a small letter with a love cupcake and keep it in his suitcase with a message to meet me at the same park in the evening where we met with the family members and accepted each other. I will be dressed in the same red wedding gown which I was wearing on the day of marriage and with all the makeup and everything reach the spot. Also I will take the ground mat and cook meals and then in the moonlight time and in the perfect ambience would plant a kiss on his cheeks and then lay on my knee grabbing his both hand and read my proposal to him. This would certainly need a lot of courage as it will be a public place and also usually men bow down the knee and hope he accepts my love and propose me their again after me in his style too of course with lovely presents.

This post is written for Closeup Cupid Games by Indiblogger Happy Hours. 

Black list for my lifestyle

BLACK is my color of dressing,my way of putting kajal in my eyes and symbol of my hair color.Black is necessity of my life style and black depicts that you are still young and passion in you to work with younger generation.If I tell you about my wish list,it goes on and on and will never get over but stil I tried my level best to figure out somethings which add top to my black list.

A Black Walking Stick

My lovely grandmother always keep her hand on my shoulder or try to find some sort of support while walking or taking steps to nearby temple.We got her a bamboo stick from the nearby market but it is not of very good quality and my grandma feels uncomfortable walking with it.For me,my grandmother is my best friend and I am always there to support her,so I am searching for a black walking wooden stick which she can hold with ease and that can help her in walking giving less pressure on her knees.

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Black Jeans

I like to wear traditional clothes and saree.But for certain special occasions like my friend birthday or get together,I like to be little less formal and like a model girl,wear black top with matching black high heels shoes.I have floral black jeans in my wish list which I could wear and dress myself in smarter way.I want black color jeans because it gives that contrast look which could match my white shirt.

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Black Dinner Set

My mom loves cooking food and I love to serve it on the table everyday whenever dad comes from office.We have been eating dinner on same old dinner set which we got last diwali festival gifted by my uncle.A black and white dinner set including everything would really make our food more fresh and we could sense change from same old utensils too.I like this Vivienne porcelain dinner set.

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Black Coffee Machine

Coffee is best when you want to stay awake or have low blood pressure.In our family ,everyone loves to sip a cup of coffee except my dad,who prefers green tea.We love to make coffee by mixing sugar and coffee in small mug and add some water to it.Then we keep on mixing it until the color of coffee changes and smell from coffee beans start coming.But still we are not able to make the coffee as done by ccd or starbucks.A black coffee machine is on my hit list so that I could get rid of this whole process and just use this beautiful black coffee maker which can make instant coffee.

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Black Mirror

My bathroom is the place for me where I can sing with freedom,love myself and talk to myself.It is the place where I realize my true personality.I stand in front of mirror and keep staring at myself after every hour or so.It gives me confidence when speaking to myself.The mirror in my bathroom is old classic style and all I want is to replace the mirror with this black frame mirror which looks royal and stylish.Its antique black finish makes it gorgeous in all respect.

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  This post is a part of #WhatTheBlack activity at

My Black Desires

Before heading to my wish list,I would like to thank God and my family for everything they have done for me and made me self reliance and capable that I can afford to buy not the best of the all beautiful things in the world but at least some things which I like the most.For me,my favorite color is white because it symbolizes peace and calm nature and matches my personality.But fashion changes everyday with new trends and impact of cultures and westernization. If you talk about black color,it represents power and authority and associated with elegance,class and bold looks.In my case,I love black color when it comes to having gadgets,using smartphones and my special occasion dress with matching jewelery.

One should not stop dreaming in life and always be confident to chase their dreams.For me some of most awesome black desires which I would love to have with me now include :-

Black Diamond Set and Earrings

When I was 6-7  years old,I use to stand in front of mirror and open my mumma jewellery box and started to dress and pamper myself.I am big fond of jewellery and specially earrings.Every year I save money to buy jewellery during Diwali festival and try to include for jewel pieces in my collection.This black and silver moti necklace and matching diamond earring is one of my favorite of all times which I would love to posses with me.

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Black Montblanc Ink Pen

My grand father used to write with black ink pen and maintained a diary with him recording all the daily transactions and business activities.Though he is not there with me but I still hold his black ink pen with me and I use it as writing instrument for signing official bank documents and important papers.I have heard that Montblanc company makes one of the premier luxuxy best fountain pen and it would be so cool for me if I own Montblanc Meisterstuck 146 LeGrand Piston Fountain Pen which comes with Black Ink .

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Black Bentley

Black Bentley Continental GT is my favorite car of all times till date and I like this car for its design and looks.This car makes me crazy and most ultimate sexy car of all times which makes me say WOOOOOOOOW.
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Black and White Smartphone

This black and white smartphone HTC ONE X is limited edition phone which is designed for perfection.The black and white color with sense interface and android firmware makes it the best smartphone on this planet.

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Black Designer Heels 

Going for a romantic date or shopping,this designer heels is must to impress everyone.This piece was worn by a model in New York Fashion show and a crowd puller.This was also part of Indian Blender Pride Fashion week and its popularity can be felt everywhere.

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Before ending the blog post,I would say no matter if I get those materialistic things with me or not,but the most important thing in life is to be happy always but keep dreaming!

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My First Day : Kitchen Food Test

Before I start about my kitchen food test,here is the summary of my post “Cooking is not only about Food but a way to express love for your Family ”

Before my marriage,like all the young girls,I too was busy in my college followed by corporate job with no time time left for cooking. When I used to reach home,I was fully exhausted and tired and just half asleep,used to take dinner and go to bed.So this continued for years until my mom started pressing me on learn cooking skills sets as now my marriage proposals have already started and I knew this question would arise everyday “Kya tumhe khana banana aata hein”.My mom was really worried as I felt uncomfortable and what will I do after marriage.So she started making me learn basic skills and I learned about various Indian spices,their tastes and which ingredient is used for preparing which dish and much more.

One day she told me that today morning breakfast will be prepared by me.On her orders,I took my little steps to kitchen and started to think what could I make it for papa and bhaiya.At the same time ,there was a calll for my mom and she had left for hospital as my Nana Ji was really ill.Now I had no option and no alternative as market was closed and mom had also left.I took my smartphone and started my youtube video and looking for something related to eggs.I started browsing various dishes and finally figured out Egg burji.As I started I realized that cooking is not a piece of cake and require various skills.By some how I managed to cook egg burji and served it with bread but the way it tasted was horrible.But I was really surprised that my papa and bhaiya did not utter any thing.


Learning about Indian spices from Mom

That was a moment I realized that how important is to learn cooking and then started taking this as a serious hobby and part of my daily life.Within few days ,mom taught me so many dishes and recipes that I was ready to make anything if there are guests coming from home.Then within few days ,I got married and went to my new home.

I was really excited to cook in my new home and everybody thought that I did not knew anything about cooking and had to be taught everything.So on the 2nd itself,I wanted to surprise everyone by cooking a dinner by myself.In the evening I told my husband that today I want to cook my self all the dinner and told him to bring all the vegetables and spices as required for it.He was really happy to listen that I will be cooking,so he quickly noted all the items and brought the same.He even told me that he will support me in cooking and finding all the items in the kitchen as still I was still my 2nd day.

I figured out that we have a microwave and so thought of preparing something which is really quick to serve. I made Badami paneer in microwave within 14 minutes time in Borosil transparent bowl.When I opened the microwave ,it looks delicious and smelled very Yummy.The best part of using Borosil microwave bowl is that it does not get hot from outside and you dont need gloves to hold it.


Borosil Bowl

At the same time,I was preparing fried rice.My husband is very fond of fried rice and I knew this from her maasi who told me about his love for fried rice from childhood days.So I thought ,I should make this one special for him.

Fried rice is chinese dish which requires basmati rice (2 cups),green vegetables,capsicum,spring,onions,ginger,garlic,cabbage,mushrooms,carrot,soya sauce plus salt and pepper to taste.Preparation time is around 35 minutes and its method is soaking rise in water,drain and cooking the rice and then straining it.Then once done,keep the rice aside and chop all the veggies and heat oil in a pan.Add some anise and prepare the garlic-gineger mix with onions and fry it. All all the chopped veggies and stir to medium flame.The veggies have to be constantly tossed and add soya,tomato sauce with salt and pepper.Simultaneously add fried rise as well and stir it till the sauce has coated the fried rice.


Once the dishes were ready to be served,I quickly took out our Borosil  crockery set which was kept in the kitchen almirah so that food looks even more delicious and remains hot for a longer period of time.Once the dinner was served,everyone applauded my effort and our baugi (grandfather) gave me Rs 500 as a token of appreciation for my first dish.I felt so happy and elated to cook for my family and then serve it myself.Thanks to Borosil for helping me in cooking and making my food more presentable.

This blog post is a contest entry to for   the Borosil beautiful food contest.


Meri Maa : My Super Role Model

My mom is my Role Model.She is inspiration and motivator for our family and her every second,every day is dedicated to us and care for our family.She is my role model for all the things she does without any expectations or feelings.She is the real hero in my life and a perfect companion.She is very organized and a teacher with knowledge about everything.No one can take the place or fill the space for her.She has contributed so much for the society by teaching in goverment school,helping poor children in NGO and taking care of environment everyday.

Through this video,I would like to give a small tribute to her and tell everyone about why she is my role model.


I am writing about #MyRoleModel as a part of the activity by Gillette India in association with