Backbone behind my Success

Childhood is seen as stage of our lives as we have freedom to think about our career and future planning. It is the time when can do without many restrictions. I consider it right perception and many people do remain confused but little bit of guidance can really help them in making the decision during this crucial stage of life. One wrong decision can lead to more pressures and issues as we grow up and would not be able to find satisfaction in life.

I belong to lower middle class family and it was difficult at times to spend extra money or afford luxury things. It was more like hand to mouth situation in my family. There were few financial problems and my grandparent’s health issues too which were making our life full of struggle for my parents. But I feel they were able to handle all the pressure and came out over it due to their positive approach and working hard. All this never came in between my life to they always persuaded me to grab all the opportunities with both hands and focus on my future dreams.

After my graduation I did not have the job in my field and my dreams were over. I thought to continue in this job as I was earning money and helping my family in tough time. It was also difficult for them to run the house with their income. But they stood strong with me and told me to take a big step for resignation from my current job and work towards your dream job. Everyone in the social circle was against this decision as my life was at crucial stage and getting your dream job would take time and money. My parents forced me to stick to my decision and so I took another gamble to do post graduation in finance which was my ultimate aim. My parents took bank loan for my studies and I joined coaching classes and started my preparation for entrance exam. I had to face lot of problems due to my decision of leaving the job but still guidance from my teachers and friends motivated me to do well in exam. I got the admission in one of the best university and completed the course with flying colours. Further I got placed with one of best company as a result of this hard work and help from family. I urge everyone to keep moving forward in Life & give all your best to fulfil all your aspirations and you will achieve them sooner or later.

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Converting Dreams into Reality

Each stage of life has so many twist and turns.This experience with age makes me happy and sad at times. Life can be awkward and weird if you don’t have aspirations & also urge to fulfill them.I was born in the family where everyone was engineer and from information technology background.But I had more interest in share market and finance.I took the decision to study for financial degree in insurance and bank sector rather than following the family tradition of becoming an engineer. My passion for financial products helped me to get more into this profession and also my family who gave me support in all conditions.I feel happy to get a job in the work which I want to do and getting the freedom from my parents to live independent life.There was no pressure and I got a job in one of the best leading insurance company after my graduation and have started to earn good income.

I am very thankful to my parents as they had different mindset from other parents and people who were in our society.They always encouraged me to take part in different activities at early stage of cultural activity or sports function.They also gave time to think about the profession which attracts me and give me motivation about that work.They even took me for proper counseling session in order to make me aware about the core as well as related jobs.It is due to their effort that helped to find the right aim in the early age to plan for the future in advance.Proper planning and investing at right time was key reason for me to bear the fruit of success and talent, and I was future ready to service parents, nation and convert my dreams into reality. My brother was backbone for me in giving me strength at various phase of my up and down time in my life.He has told me to live and conquer this world and as per our conditions without any limitations.I consider him as fire fighter to all my difficult issues and he give me comfort and security.He was rock solid behind me and directed me to be strong.His courage and guidance to go ahead and always perform at best level and to compete with yourself.

I urge everyone to rise against the odds and try your best to live your dreams.I see that girl child may have many kind of restrictions in the society and this can be hindrance to your dream but believe in yourself to achieve them.

“I am blogging about my dreams and the people who helped make them true for the #AdviceThatMattered activity at BlogAdda in association with Stoodnt.”