Real Joy of Togetherness

Today every one of us has social networking with hundreds of contacts via various electronic medium like mobile or laptop and with various online applications like Facebook, twitter, various chat applications we are logically connected to each other but by doing that are we really close to each other is a big question.

I agree with these digital medium we do come to know about their daily visits or their daily moments of celebrations and various other aspects of life where we comment about their small moments and can also wish them instantly when applicable but can that really score over physically wishing any one, imagine you have your birthday today and you have received online wishes only from hundreds of your friends and relatives but not a single person visiting you personally and wishing you. This can also be framed as on your birthday you are spending hours in front of a laptop reading birthday wishes and doing nothing instead of your friends coming to your place and greeting you and then you are cutting small cake with them and celebrating. I agree it is easy for someone to make fake wishes online than doing same physically like wishing a rude or cruel boss online is much easier than doing same in real as your physical emotions are not attached or highlighted.

Real emotions can never be shared by online message but rather than by devoting time by meeting a person personally and expressing his views as blowing a birth day candle in real is thousand times better than viewing a birth day candle online. Well I think to add more thrills and excitement for expressing real togetherness is with the help of nature like with family and friends we plan for an out station trip which could be beach place like Goa or a hilly area like Himalayas or a desert like Egypt or Dubai or a great waterfall or holy dip in Ganga river in India. The nature also helps in group sports events like river rafting, trekking, rock climbing and many more.

The nature really helps us in bringing more impact to real togetherness as nature brings its own beauty to enjoy more in a group similarly it also brings various challenges which as a team or group faces and come out with various solutions to overcome those challenges which helps in bonding between each other and also leave a memorable experience.

I feel that being connected with relatives or friends over digital medium makes our relation weaker while on other hand relationship bonded over physical medium is much stronger and reliable. I am confident that if a survey is done for same than results will convey the same message.I feel it is great to live together and enjoy life.

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