Family Health to Children Wealth

Everyone passes through a family life cycle stage from bachelor hood to Married,then Family Nest with single child,two children and then retired to Single Parent stage.So when you are kid,your perception about your parents are like that they ¬†are too strict on you and want you to be always good and follow good practices and work hard and study.It also involves following a regular time table,cleaning your shoes and polish them daily and so on…

We parents sometimes are too protective about our children and forget that they are just kids and they can make mistakes and be notorious at times.As a parent , I want my kids to be healthy,be prepared to face anything that comes in their way and be self dependent but to develop these skills ,as a parent you want to make sure they get the right education,teachers and support from family members not only in terms of wealth but resources like love,time and trust on them.

I remember my mom always used to give me boil water to drink,washed my hands when I was small and asked me to brush my teeth before sleeping.She used to give me dabur honey with milk and in winter daburchyawanprash to make my bones stronger and healthy.Then she used to pour some ayurvedic oil daily over my body and give my legs and hands massage.

We should make sure that children are not stressed enough and should be encouraged to play outside and ask them to play outdoor games and focus on maintaining a good physique and healthy body.They should be encouraged to be part of Swatch Abhiyaan so that they can keep the surrounding clean and also keep themselves safe from diseases like malaria,cholera etc. Parents today are either engaged in their office work and sometimes work for 12 hours a day to make sure they earn enough to sustain their livelihood but this also sometimes lead to consequences like child feel neglected and lost.We should all make sure that one parent is always there to support child and attend his school meeting,sports day etc.

For a child to become a successful person,it is important for him that parents give him certain freedom to express himself,choose what he wants to pursue and select what he like to do and become and support him in his efforts to achieve it.This is important because when child is happy and knows that his family believes in his dream,so he will work hard to achieve it and his family will be proud of it.To focus on child,we should encourage them to clean their cupboard regularly and identify their priorities and keep themselfves updated about general knowledge and environment.

As a parent,children should be encouraged to have healthy diet and eat green vegetables and should not each much junk food,instead give them food which is essential to maintain balanced diet.It is important that child should get enough rest and sleep and have proper schedule for his work and play.This will help both parents and children to enjoy their life and as well as maintain daily routine.Talking about daily routine,it is also important for child to get proper immunity to fight against malnutrition,pollutions and adulteration in food and infectious diseases.I would encourage everyone to use desi products and Ayurvedic products instead of Vitamin supplements to protect your children from immunity.

This post has been exclusively written for IndiBlogger and Dabur Chavanprashhttps://www.liveveda.com/daburchyawanprash/

Meri Diwali ki kahaani

I felt like crying after watching this video giving a perfect message to the viewers that there is no joy or celelbration without our family #GharwaliDiwali.

The video is very touching and once you watch it,you realize that we all are running to earn money and have forgot our family and traditions and giving more value to comforts.I would ask everyone to try to sneak into your childhood and look what is missing now and try to celebrate Diwali this year same way as you celebrated in those childhood years.

Taking forward to it,I would like to share you some of my best memories of diwali….

One of the earliest memories of my life is the one when I was 10 years old.My Sanju uncle brought me a bag full of crackers which were full of rockets,chakris,phuljaari,gola and jalebi.It was the first time I got the opportunity to hold those crackers in my hand and at the same time,it was very frightening for me.When I lit my first chakri,I was so happy and started to jump as the jalebi was moving in circle.The funny moment was that my brother who was 12 was more afraid than me and started crying.So till today,I try to poke him on Jalebi incident.

Last year Diwali memory is very emotional and heart braking.My grandmother was suffering from life threatening disease cancer and while I was in Mumbai for my job training.I was never told about it until the day she was admitted to hospital.I loved her very much and we use to share special bond with each other and we are more like brother and sister.So it was her wish or something that I thought of surprising her by visiting home last year.I booked my flight tickets early on day before diwali and reached home early in morning surprising everybody with gifts.I went to grandma room and something what happened next surpised my father completely.When my grandma saw me,She stood up and hugged me tightly and started speaking with me and waving her hand.Later,my father told me that grandma could not even sit on her own and could not even speak to any one from past 3 days and it is some God magic or her willpower that she has stood today.

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Last but not least ,the Diwali memory is liting up diyas,making rangolis with my neighbors and visiting my friends and giving greeting cards to my parents every year.Around 7pm on Diwali day,everyone in the family sit to next each other and pray and bow to our ancestors and gods during puja ceremony.We also play a game of Teen Patti and Poker with our neighbors and have a small get together in community hall for dance and masti late night.

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Diwali is so close to my heart and I always wish that Diwali festival brings happiness to my family and all wishes of my parents come true. I wish everyone Happy and Prosperous Diwali this year and many more to come! Do also visit https https://www.gharwalidiwali.com/ for spreading the lvoe this diwali to your family member and take this opportunity to thank your family members.